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    Coming Out of the Dark…


    2008 - 10.10

    It’s officially National Coming Out Day today across the globe. Today marks the 20th celebration of a day for GLBT peoples everywhere to make their voices heard. It originated as an anniversary celebration of a march on Washington, D.C., in 1987 to raise awareness for gay and lesbian equality in which half a million people participated.

    There remains some debate as to whether being out is important or even mandatory, as some more militant people suggest. Personally, I leave it up to the individual as a personal decision. Yet I do believe that visibility is extremely important in this age. Though it may be yet another label to brand on our foreheads, silence does make us seem like more of a minority than we truly are.

    So polish up that old pride necklace you have buried in your dresser drawer. Clip a red ribbon on your shirt. Wear a pink or black triangle on your tie. Let yourself be noticed.

    After the Panic at the Disco…


    2008 - 06.24

    Well, I’m feeling relaxed tonight. Relatively. I’ve accomplished what I needed to work on this weekend, though a bit later than I expected. I would love to discuss things further, but since I have this nasty habit of jinxing myself whenever I open my mouth, it will have to wait a while.

    Otherwise, my weekend was interesting. Cleveland Pride was decent. Same people, same setup. I didn’t even notice there was a theme until we were leaving… isn’t that sad?

    Dinner plans changed. There was a $10 cover just to walk into Union Station, and since no food is worth that overhead cost, we ventured elsewhere. The second choice of restaurants turned out to be just as unfortunate. They were without power and unable to cook! Finally, we opted for Bennigan’s.

    I had a pint of Guinness and a burger, and all was well with the world.

    This week is passing extremely quickly. Almost too fast. Perhaps because of the many things that need to be done? I have phone calls to make tomorrow, plans to set into motion, and an immense cleaning project ahead to turn my desk from a disastrous mountain of chaos to a real work station. No wonder I have a difficult time focusing. Too many distractions.

    I do have two bright bits of news today to share with you all. I have more good press!

    Just tonight, author Jeanne Barrack posted an interview with me on her blog, The Sweet Flag. She’s a delightful woman… and since I haven’t gotten around to featuring her on here yet, I may as well mention her now! Also, Paranormalizer reviewed my blog on his website (and I’ll be adding the tag eventually.. once I figure it all out). A 10 out of 10!! Wow, I’m impressed. That must be a typo. So much for my self-impression of mediocrity!

    And here I thought I was the only one getting much enjoyment out of my words. You like me!! You really, really like me! *sniff*

    Tomorrow, between frantic phone calls and very important emails, I’ll be returning to my usual insane self. Goodness gracious… after such a slow few weeks, I should be able to come up with some great material for here!

    I Got My Pride…


    2008 - 06.19

    As the week goes by, I’ve found myself preoccupied with so many things, my blog has suffered. I do sincerely apologize to my dear readers. Never fear; there will be my regular “road trip” posted tomorrow still! Believe it or not, I have enough stories to last throughout the summer and into the fall.

    Otherwise, tomorrow I’ll be heading to the haunted Mansfield Reformatory for an overnight paranormal investigation. The prison is quite notorious for it’s hauntings and was even featured on an episode of Ghost Hunters. Though we’ll be permitted to stay until 6:30 AM, I know I won’t be lasting that long. It should prove to be an interesting night. At the very least, there will be fun and amusement to be had.

    The main reason I won’t stay all night is Saturday plans. It’s that time of year again. Rain or shine, northeast Ohio will be having it’s annual Cleveland Pride celebration at Voinovich Park. Though I’ll probably be sleeping through the parade, I’ll be at the festival itself in the afternoon. It will be interesting to see what this year brings… and who I happen to see. And if you happen to be there, don’t hesitate to say hello if you see me. I swear, I really am a friendly person!

    Later on, my friends and I will head over to Union Station for dinner, drinks, and perhaps a show. I’m already planning on having a long island iced tea that night, unless there happens to be a decent drink special. By that time, I’ll need a little libation to relax and unwind.

    Over all, it’s a crazy few days ahead. But it’s that time of year to let your hair down (which is actually possible for me now that I’m letting it grow out beyond the usual buzz cut… or as my friends say, “turning emo”) and enjoying life. Freedom and celebration will be in the air. And for me, it’s a time of major change.

    This summer could prove to be a pivotal turning point in my life…