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    Back to the Insanity…


    2009 - 01.26

    This month, I have learned a valuable lesson: never decide to drop everything to punch out chapters in assembly line fashion! Why? For one, cutting off from everyone around you means major withdrawal worse than a nicotine addiction and leads to a major depression. And secondly, it doesn’t work. You can’t force out decent writing on a set eight-hour schedule. Research ebbs and flows, just as the writing does.

    I have managed to put a large dent in my work load, but it’s been funny how phone calls out of the blue have been such a major relief. I’d fail miserably at being a hermit; I need human interaction. I write better when my world is a bit busier with the regular chaos of juggling schedules and being pestered by people who I want to talk to… and even the ones I don’t want to talk to!

    So, it looks like I’m back to normal, for the most part. I’ll be picking up the blog again (mainly because I need something to laugh at after reading so much about dead people suffering from acute melancholia) and opening up my free time to include anything else that comes my way. If I could pound out a dozen chapters while blogging and socializing this past summer, I sure as heck can manage in the depths of depressing winter. Even more so, since the gray, frigid gloom of Ohio is beyond taxing on my mental health.

    Come fall, published book or no, I’m taking a vacation. Mark my words…

    So, tomorrow I’ll be digging back through my news bookmarks, looking up some weird, stupid moments in humanity, nitpicking at ghosts and those who investigate them, and doing my best to find fun and humor everywhere. Why? Because we’re strange creatures who take ourselves far too seriously…

    … and someone needs to remind us about it.

    You’re as Cold as Ice…


    2008 - 11.16

    The most tumultuous thing about this weekend, fortunately, was the weather.

    Yesterday evening was an interesting dinner in Cleveland with a few friends and the paranormal troop during monsoon-like weather. Rock Bottom Brewery may be an allegedly haunted place, but the only frightening part about visiting the Powerhouse in the Flats is the $6 parking fee for the building. Wind whipped rain off Lake Erie after earlier thunderstorms, adding a bit of mystique to the illuminated building… and puddles to dodge as you run back to the parking lot.

    The temperature plummeted by nightfall in anticipation of today’s snow. I stayed up a tad bit later than normal to catch some Doctor Who on BBC America. A relaxed morning gave way to wading through junk email and plotting out the coming week. Snow began to coat outdoor surfaces this evening and it isn’t expected to let up for the next week. Winter has arrived in northeast Ohio, just in time to curtail outdoor plans and remind me of the unpredictability of Mother Nature.

    It might be a good week for a coffee shop meeting with friends after all…

    What? More Snow??


    2008 - 03.06

    According to the National Weather Service, there could be “blizzard-like conditions” over the next two days. What a perfect way to start the weekend. Hopefully this won’t make my weekend a nightmare of being trapped indoors, unable to leave from the piles of snow heaped up against the door.

    I would officially go insane if that happened.

    But this is Ohio. This is that wonderful part of the United States where the weather changes before you know it. Where snow is followed by rain with a break of sun. Winters can be harsh and summers incredibly hot. We deal with extremes… and a lack of sunny days.

    I ask myself very often why I live here. I have no good reason. I’d be happy with only seeing snow one day out of the year. I’m not terribly fond of extremes. I enjoy sunlight. The only positive thing is being so close to a national park. But we need better weather to make it more enjoyable.

    Honestly, I don’t see myself living in Ohio permanently. I wouldn’t want to be here until the end. People ask me all the time where I would want to be, and I can never give a definite answer. Florida? Maybe.. I’ve never been there to know. California? Ditto. Arizona? Heck no! Too hot and too far from water. Georgia? Well, maybe Savannah… but I could do without hurricanes. London? If I could afford it, maybe. Paris? No thanks… not that I in any way dislike the French, but I don’t care for big, busy cities.

    Somewhere nice. Somewhere with pleasant people. Somewhere near water. And definitely with some eye candy.

    Obviously, I’m skirting the issue. my ultimate, dream, “I have to live there before I die” place?

    Melbourne, Australia.

    I’ve heard that out of all the cities on the eastern coast of Australia, Melbourne is the most beautiful. Of course, I need to find out for myself. I do seriously hope to finally make my way “down under” within the next few years. Sooner, if luck finally falls in my favour. There is no point in denying that I’m an aussiephile (though that actually being a word is debatable). I love the history, the culture, the lay of the land… and it doesn’t hurt to have an incredible friend living there (well, not in Melbourne, but you know what I mean).

    As I awaken to the white glow from the window, I know my thoughts will wander to bright beaches, cool breezes, and perhaps a koala or two…

    All My Friends are Bizarre People…


    2008 - 02.27

    Much to my chagrin, I had a message waiting for me today. it was from my friend “Camevil”, webmistress for Dead Ohio!

    She created a little video of her exciting weekend activities. As always, with a little interesting music and a lot of wit and humor. I couldn’t help but share…

    At least one of us is enjoying the winter weather…